Friday, December 30, 2011

Last round of FIFTY LINDEN FRIDAY!



I don't usually do this, but in this case, I feel it is necessary to say 'thank you' at least. Thank you, OMGWTF Barbecue for organizing this weekly sales event. Your work was and still is highly appreciated. Thank you, designers who participated, for offering so many mostly awesome deals and for putting up with often bad attitudes of entitlement displayed by your customers. I always liked FLF, even if I did not buy or like every single item and I am sad to see it go.

This last round has especially many and nice items.

Hair: Fri.day (Parvarti Monday)
Skin: Curio (Gala Phoenix)
Shape: selfmade (not for sale)
Ears: :Illusory. (Crushed Clarity)
Eyes: ::Umedama Holic:: (Umetaro Mayo)
Teeth: [PXL] (Hart Larsson)
Make Up: Natural Beauty (Miah MCAuley)
Vest: Milk Motion (Marie Lauridsen, Fifty Linden Friday Item!!)
Cardigan: Tee*fy (Azure Electriteeth, Fifty Linden friday Item!!)
Undershirt: Kyoot (Saeya Nyanda, past Fifty Linden Friday Item!!)
Pants: Mocha (Flexagons Villota, 50L)
Socks: Enchanty (Nuts Andel)
Boots: FIR & MNA (rob1977 Moonites, Fifty Linden Friday Item!! Mesh!!)
Gloves: Caverna Obscura (Elvina Ewing, part of Ascalon Ranger)
Armwarmers: *BOOM* (Aranel Ah)
Belt: Celoe (JadenArt Resident)
Bag: House fo Fox (Fashionboi Landar, Fifty Linden Friday Item!!)
Scarf: MALT (Khea Karas, Gift in Calendar @ KittyCats Mainstore)
Ring: Alchemy Immortalis (AlchemyImmortalis Cyannis)
Facial Chain: Ripped (Beautifully Sinister, old (?) dollarbie)

Location: The 5th Earth (Fantasy Medieval Role-Play, Vana



Also, thanks to Elle Couerblanc, I am not officially hooked to KittyCats. I got five already: Wurfel, Choqi, Mari, Bear and Renor. I think there must have been some drugs in my milk.

Tuesday, December 27, 2011

A dios le pido que nunca te vayas de mi vida.



Hair: Exile (Kavar Cleanslate, The Dressing Room Blue Item!!)
Skin: Curio (Gala Phoenix)
Shape: selfmade (not for sale)
Ears: .Illusory. (Crushed Clarity)
Eyes: ::Umedama Holic:: (Umetaro Mayo)
Freckles: .:Glamorize:. (Yoko Leeeroy)
Make Up: *BOOM* (Aranel Ah)
Dress: Enchanty (Nuts Andel)
Vest: ::TOXIC KITTY:: (Sookie Larnia)
Undershirt: 'NINIKO' (Kae Sahara, part of Natural Tunic)
Shoes: DP*yumyum (toraji Voom, NEW!!)
Socks: Enchanty
Gloves: Sindecade (Trin Trevellion)
Armwarmers: *BOOM*
Muffler: CriCri (cricri Core, Gacha!)
Bracelet: Willow (Weezy Warwillow, past Fifty Linden Friday Item!!)
Bag: Izumiya (Izumi Homewood)

Location: The Looking Glass (Non-Role-Play), Horizon Dream


And, as I told you guys, here's the X-Mas Gift from Curio, which can only be retrieved through their Update Group! It doesn't look so good on my avi's shape and makes her look like a 12 yrs old, but it is really pretty on many other avs that I have seen and is of...impeccable...quality. :)

Incoming SL Name Change?!

Gorgeous 'Gogo' Yongho brought up an interesting topic on her blog Juicybomb: The (not yet existing) ability to change your avatar's entire name.

She found a JIRA which was started by an avatar called Sexing Oh (how surprising, hehe) a while ago in 2008 where the person voices their desire to be able to change their complete name. Not just display names, but the actual name. Now Gogo supports the JIRA on her blog and basically supports the JIRA with quite a nice bit of people who read her blog every day.

Do I really want this?

At first, I was about to follow her call and do so, but then it got me thinking. Do I really want people to be able to change their names? With all its consequences?

My answer is no. I personally like my name, I chose it carefully enough when I started. I don't have a reason to change it. I have very, very few people in SL whom I'd truly avoid at all costs, so I have no real enemies either. I don't have a problem that would make me want to change names.

Harassment is a big let down

But then again, I have witnessed more often than not the harm that can be done with alts already. Ever since LindenLabs officially announced that each person can have as many alts as they wish to (before that, alts were sort of...not so legal), there has been an increasing amount of alts, which especially can be a problem in role-play sims, where I tend to hang out.

I personally do not care about alts, about the gender of the player etc....unless....people use them to harm someone else's SL experience. And sadly, that does seem to be the case more and more frequently. Harassment can be a huge let down for many people who used to enjoy role-playing in SL.

Now, if we add the complete change of names to the current situation? I think it might even turn into a bigger playfield for those who have nothing better to do but to annoy others or try to get into contact with people who try to avoid them.

People with a bad reputation...

One of the many reasons amongst others to create an alt is the fresh start. I am already no big fan of that. I am Arica Storaro, I do have alts which I use for modeling, random NPCs etc. I only role-play on Arica, she has forever been my main and will stay my main. All the things I have done (or haven't done) stick to her, I have built up a certain reputation with her. I don't hide it.

While I think there are many justified reasons to enjoy a fresh start, I am no fan at all to help people with a shitty reputation to get a fresh start. You reap what you sow. Imho, in 90% of the cases those shitty reputations are well deserved. I am sure there are exceptions, but generally...yes. I think if you are known to be an asshole, you are likely an asshole.

Now, with the name change, all these fresh starts to avoid the consequences of your own shitty behaviour might even be easier.

But my name is ridiculous!

This is another argument that I hear very often. Your name, your choice. If your name is so ridiculous, why did you stay with it in the first place? Why didn't you make an alt before your inventory got so huge that you had invested too much to consider making a new main? If you call yourself "IamAnIdiotic GossipGirl" I really don't think you deserve much pity. I am sorry, but you really don't. "SlaveSlut Oh" isn't a good idea either, and anyone with more than two braincells should realize that. :/ Our name does, to a certain degree, define what we are, even in real life (or especially there?). If you choose a ridiculous one...well. Not a good idea.

I think, if there is ever gonna be a name change, it should be relatively expensive and not be allowed more than once/year maybe. Also, a reason must be provided.

How could it be done?

On the JIRA, some people cam eup with some decent ideas to avoid the abuse of sucha  feature. Banned avatars should remain banned, property-related issues would have to be renamed and many other things. I personally fear, that if you truly wanted to implement this, with all its consequences to building, item-owners, property-issues, land- and group-owners etc...you better not ask LindenLabs, who do have a history of implementing half-assed features that cause more trouble than anything else. :P Also I think, one should be able to look up a person's history of name changes.

 

What do you guys think? :)

[polldaddy poll=5792222]

PS: Forgive typos! Not wearing my contacts today. :P

Saturday, December 24, 2011

So many X-Mas-Goodies! :)

There are a lot of awesome x-mas gifts or x-mas cheapies to be had out there! I made a small compilation (on my freebie-avatar) of my favourite hairs and skins that are either free or can be bought for 10 L in the current For the Love of ... Hunt. :)

Currently Gala Phoenix (Curio Skin) currently has set her group to open enrollment for free. I'd recommend to join it because I am relatively sure that she'll release a gift soon, too, and usually the group gets closed once the gift is released. :)

[gallery]

Merry X-Mas to everyone out there!

Friday, December 23, 2011

I know that you saw what we could be.


Hair: LeLutka (Thora Charron, NEW!!)
Skin: Curio (Gala Phoenix)
Shape: selfmade (not for sale)
Ears: .Illusory. (Crushed Clarity)
Eyes: ::Umedama Holic:: (umetaro Mayo)
Blush: Bella di Notte (Jade Glazner)
Lipstick: .Illusory. (Crushed Clairty, comes with Paige Skin!!)
Make Up: BOOM (Aranel Ah)
Vest: Milk Motion (Marie Lauridsen)
Tunic: Kyoot (Saeya Nyanda, current FIFTY LINDEN FRIDAY Item!!)
Shirt: Zaara (Zaara Kohime, Red Items Sale!!)
Undershirt (Turtleneck): [Nerd.P] (Mogu Toxx, FOUR CORNERS EVENT!!)
Pants: Bare Rose (June Dion, part of Airship Mechanic Lady)
Boots: *{Severed Garden}* (Berta Avro)
Gloves: Caverna Obscura (Elvina Ewing, part of Ascalon Ranger)
Belt (Hip): Talender Doll (Juliette Bade, part of Outfit 'Trap', New!!)
Belt (Waist): Ingenue (Betty Doyle, MESH!!)
Cuffs: Beetlebones (Suetabulous Yootz, MESH!!)
Ring: KOSH (Lynaja Bade)
Necklace: NHA! (Kyrha Bouscario)
Guitar: ::{u.f.o}:: (Charming Meiler, GACHA!!)
Thigh Dagger: LR Weapons (Larion Rhode)

Location: Zigana (Non-Role-Play), Sea Salts

Wednesday, December 21, 2011

It is not what you say, but how you say it - Bloggers and Item-Review

Ever since I started blogging, I have been frequently asked why I never add any personal comments or similar things to my blog. Here is the answer:

Since quite some time it has become very 'cool' and 'fashionable' to  post your opinion on items and the louder and harsher the wording is, the more views your blog gets, preferably when it comes to 'critique' on other peoples' creations. People love to read 'the truth' and 'honest opinions', they love to add to the drama, to comment on it etc. pp. I am guilty of that, too. I sometimes read such blogs for the mere amusement and head-shaking it causes.

And I agree with some of it. If an item is not worth its money, you have the right to point it out and support your statements with facts. I find that incredibly helpful at times. I often browse some blogs just to see the close ups on skins/clothing and other things that otherwise I might have failed to notice.

Yet, more often than not I lately get the feeling that people go way, way overboard. There is a very thin yet visible line between constructive criticism and destructive criticism. The first one aims at pointing out flaws and encourage the creator to become better or put more effort into their work. The latter however in 99% of the cases causes nothing but drama, hard feelings and usually a very defensive attitude on the side of the creator. The first is something I always support, the latter is something that I consider nothing but intentionally causing drama.

Or is anyone really suprised that a creator gets defensive when a blogger states: "Wow, this shit makes me wanna puke and punch them in the face?" Statements like these, sometimes less harsh, sometimes worse, seem to be really 'en vogue' lately. In Germany, we have a saying: "Der Ton macht die Musik." - which can loosely be translated as: "It is not what you say, but how you say it." You reap what you sow. If I behave like an ass, I don't expect maturity and kindness in return.

So, my personal approach so far is: I only blog things that I truly like. I do not see the point in spending money or wasting time by blogging something that I do not support or like anyway. The things on my blog are things I love and that I pay or always would pay the necessary Lindens for.  I do not blog to have as many people as possible post their opinion or comments, I simply blog to show what sort of outfit I currently love in SL and to possibly inspire other role-players.

I am not saying that I will never start reviewing items as well (never is such a strong word...), but as of now, I don't see the need for it and simply try the positive-only-approach by only blogging items that I can honestly support. Same goes for links, other blogs in my blogroll etc.

My two cents, I hope that answers that question. :)

PS: English is not my native tongue, so please forgive the possible typos, grammar-fails etc.

You can count the teardrops in my eyes.


Hair: Elikatira (Elikapeda Tiramisu)
Skin: Curio (Gala Phoenix)
Shape: selfmade (not for sale)
Ears: .Illusory. (Crushed Clarity)
Eyes: ::Umedama Holic:: (umetaro Mayo)
Blush: Bella di Notte (Jade Glazner)
Make Up: *BOOM* (Aranel Ah)
Vest: TOXIC KITTY (Sookie Larnia)
Cardigan: Tulip. (Minami Susanova)
Corset: Lolli & Nitz (Lolli Hoxley)
Undershirt: Tulip.
Skirt: couverture (Chocolate Arashi, group gift!!)
Socks: couverture
Shoes: DP*yumyum (toraji Voom, NEW!!)
Gloves: Caverna Obscura (Elvina Ewing, part of Ascalon Ranger)
Legwarmers: tram (Moca Loup)
Armwarmers: *BOOM* (Aranel Ah)
Bag: KAO (Kao Sands)
Stole: tram
Scarf: oyakin (kinbo Akina)
Necklace: KOSH (Lynaja Bade)

Location: Skerry of Einar on Desolate Swamplands, Skerry of Einar

Sunday, December 18, 2011

Someone that you think that you can trust...


Hair: Maitreya (Onyx LeShelle)
Skin: Curio (Gala Phoenix)
Shape: selfmade (not for sale)
Ears: .Illusory. (Crushed Clarity)
Make Up: *Boom* (Aranel Ah), [Atomic] (Ivy Graves)
Blush: Bella di Notte (Jade Glazner)
Lipstick: (Ag) (Amiee Galicia)
Poncho: DP*yumyum (Toraji Voom)
Pullover: [NERD.P] (Mogu Toxx, FOUR CORNERS EVENT Item!!)
Skirt: PRISS (Erin Winterwolf, FOUR CORNERS EVENT Item!!)
Pants: oyakin (kinbo Akina)
Boots: Miel (Mika Nieuport, Subscribo Gift!!)
Gloves: Celoe (JadenArt Resident, Mesh!!)
Armwarmers: *BOOM* (Aranel Ah, NEW!!)
Legwarmers: Argyle Anonymus (Swan Ling, old gacha item)
Belt: Yorim's Factory (yoriminaty Beresford)
Bag: Tokidoki (Maya Levane)
Thigh Dagger: LR Weapons (Larion Rode)
Circlet: [Bubble] (Moonbubble Gothly)

Location: The Shadow Lands (medieval fantasy role-play), Sentinel Dreams

Friday, December 16, 2011

I got you all figured out.


Hair: [Burley] (Bella Earst, NEW!!)
Skin: Curio (Gala Phoenix)
Shape: selfmade (not for sale)
Ears: .Illusory. (Crushed Clarity)
Eyes: ::Umedama Holic:: (umetaro Mayo)
Make Up: *BOOM* (Aranel Ah), DAMNED (DamnedShop Resident)
Vest: ISON (Harry Hyx)
Corset: {DCNS} (Devin Klaber)
Blouse: :+:nerveux:+: (paoluu Oceanlane, New!!)
Skirt: Baiastice (Sissy Pessoa)
Gloves: Celoe (JadenArt Resident, Mesh!!)
Boots (not visible): Tokidoki (Maya Levane)
Necklace: NHA! (Kyrha Bouscario)
Ring: KOSH (Lynaja Bade)
Bag: :pesca: (Tsugu Nirvana)
Scarf: oyakin (kinbo Akina)

Location: Taharian Port City of Kasra, Hidden Village

Wednesday, December 14, 2011

Wait for me please.


Hair: Vive9 (Sanya Bilavio, NEW!!)
Skin: Curio (Gala Phoenix)
Shape: selfmade (not for sale)
Ears: .Illusory. (Crushed Clarity)
Eyes: ::Umedama Holic:: (umetaro Mayo)
Freckles: .:Glamorize:. (Yoko Leeeroy)
Make Up: *Boom* (Aranel Ah), Natural Beauty (Miah McAuley)
Jacket: MNK:shop (Nyanchi Eel)
Cardigan: ISON (Harry Hyx)
Undershirt: Koketka (Slava Parkin, part of Lena Dress)
Vest (layer): Deviance (Surreal LeShelle)
Pants: [The Plastik] (Aikea Rieko, SALE!!)
Boots: [Love Soul] (Bluestarrui Villota)
Gloves: Celoe (JadenArt Resident, Mesh!!)
Belt (Hip): Talender Doll (Juliette Bade, part of Outfit 'Trap', NEW!!)
Belt (Waist) *COCO* (cocoro Lemon)
Bracelet: Miel (Mika Nieuport, Subscribo Gift!!)
Ring: KOSH (Lynaja Bade)
Thigh Dagger: LR Weapons (Larion Rhode)
Arm Dagger: LR Weapons
Bow: LR Weapons

Location: Realm of Mystara (Medieval Fantasy Role-Play), Krillian

Saturday, December 10, 2011

Let me occupy your mind, as you do mine.



Hair: [LeLutka] (Thora Charron)
Skin: Curio (Gala Phoenix)
Ears: .Illusory. (Crushed Clarity)
Lipstick: Dead Apples (Soleil Reid)
Make Up: *BOOM* (Aranel Ah), Damned (DamnedShop Resident)
Facial Tattoo: Nuuna's Skins (Nuuna Nitely)
Poncho: Fashionably Dead (Toast Bard, Collabor88 Item!!)
Blouse: {u.f.o} (Charming Meiler, part of 'always belong to you', Collabor88 Item!!)
Undershirt: KAO (Kao Sands)
Skirt: Fashionably Dead (Collabor88 Item!!)
Socks: couverture (chocolate Arashi)
Boots: Tokidoki (Maya Levane)
Gloves: Caverna Obscura (Elvina Ewing, part of Anariel Armor)
Legwarmers: Argyle Anonymus (Swan Ling, old (?) Gacha Item)
Scarf: ::Je::suis:: ( Julia Merosi)
Necklace: Armidi (London Armidi)
Facial Chains: Ripped (Beautifully Sinister, 1L)
Ring: KOSH (Lynaja Bade)
Armor: [The Forge] (Kain Flores)
Sword: LR Weapons (Larion Rhode)

Location: Celdwin Islands (german medieval role-play), Celdwin Islands

Thursday, December 8, 2011

So much goodness from Collabor88!!



Hair: Clawtooth (Bubbles Clawtooth, Collabor88 Item!!)
Skin: Curio (Gala Phoenix)
Shape: selfmade (not for sale)
Ears: .Illusory. (Crushed Clarity)
Lashes: [LeLutka] (Thora Charron)
Make Up: DAMNED (DamnedShop Resident), *BOOM* (Aranel Ah)
Vest: Milk Motion (Marie Lauridsen, old Fifty Linden Friday Item!!)
Tunic: {u.f.o} (Charming Meiler, Collabor88 item!!)
Pants: Sur+ (Sienia Trevellion, Store apparently closed.)
Boots: Tokidoki (Maya Levane, NEW!!)
Gloves: Celoe (JadenArt Resident, NEW!! Mesh!!)
Scarf: *BOOM* (Collabor88 Item!!)
Necklace 1: -Tres Blah- (Juliette Westerburg, Collabor88 Item!!)
Tassles-Necklace: *League* (Nena Janus)
Ring: KOSH (Lynaja Bade)
Legwarmers: Tiny Bird (Autumn Hykova, Store closed.)
Bag: :pesca: (Tsugu Nirvana)
Bangle: Beetlebones (Suetabulous Yootz, Mesh!!)

Location: Alirium Gardens/Store, Alirium

Saturday, December 3, 2011

I am going in for the kill. I am doing it for the thrill.


Hair: Elikatira (Elikapeda Tiramisu, New!!)
Skin: Curio (Gala Phoenix)
Shape: selfmade (not for sale)
Eyes: ::Umedama Holic:: (Umetaro Mayo)
Ears: .Illusory. (Crushed Clarity)
Lipstick: (Ag) (Amiee Galicia), Dead Apples (Soleil Reid)
Make Up: *BOOM* (Aranel Ah)
Facial Tattoo: Handverk (Daphne Klossovsky)
Armor: [The Forge] (Kain Flores)
Vest: ISON (Harry Hyx, Project Themeory Item!!)
Cardigan: *Fishy Strawberry* (Fae Erikson, The Dressing Room Item!!)
Undershirt: "NINIKO" (Kae Sahara, part of Tweed Tunic)
Pants: Tokidoki (Maya Levane)
Socks: Kyoot (Saeya Nyanda, past Fifty Linden Friday Item)
Boots: Tokidoki (New!!)
Gloves: Caverna Obscura (Elvina Ewing, part of Anariel Armor)
Belt: {mon tissu} (Elie Spot)
Necklace: KOSH (Lynaja Bade)
Ring: KOSH
Dagger (Hand): Losthaven (Lucia Cyr)
Dagger (Hip): Losthaven
Thigh Dagger: LR Weapons (Larion Rhode)

Location: Realm of Mystara (medieval fantasy role-play), Krillian

Friday, December 2, 2011

This time they will not escape us!



Hair: [Burley] (Bella Earst)
Skin: Curio (Gala Phoenix)
Shape: selfmade (not for sale)
Ears: .Illusory. (Crushed Clarity)
Eyes: Insufferable Dastard (Audrey Lamede, The Seasons Hunt, 0L)
Make Up: *Boom* (Aranel Ah), Dead Apples (Soleil Reid)
Lipstick: (Ag) (Amiee Galicia)
Facial Tattoo: The Prop Store (Degra Dockal, Marketplace)
Cardigan: [pivaaca] (Trish Blanco)
Vest: Defiance (Surreal LeShelle)
Undershirt: KAO (Kao Sands)
Pants: *{Severed Garden}* (Berta Avro, part of Berit Outfit)
Socks: Kyoot (Saeya Nyanda, today's FIFTY LINDEN FRIDAY item!!)
Boots: Lucifer's Heart (Cara Ametza)
Gloves: Celoe (JadenArt Resident, MESH!!)
Scarf: *BOOM* (Aranel Ah, League of Christmas Item!! New!!)
Necklace: YourSkin&YourShape (Monyka Benelli)
Bracelet: EarthStones (Abraxxa Anatine)
Dagger: Losthaven (Lucia Cyr)
Thigh Dagger: Old Mystara Gift (Mercy Akami)
Squirrel: *{Severed Garden}* (part of Akis Outfit)

Location: St. Rocca/Seeburg (german medieval role-play), St Rocca